Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts

Monday, December 20, 2021

Road trip

 

Road Trip

Haiku for Pilgrims


Family road trip:

The annual pilgrimage

for the Passover.


Three days on the road:

Nazareth – Jerusalem;

and then the return.


Such a company

of family and friends; he’ll

be around, somewhere.


Twenty-four hours

before the child was missed. Back

to Jerusalem!


Aged twelve, they found him

in the temple, discussing

spiritual things.


Mightily relieved,

his parents took him to task:

Why have you done this?


Why were you searching?

I was always at home here,

in my Father’s house.


Back in Nazareth

the boy stayed out of trouble,

at least for a time.


© Ken Rookes 2021

Monday, May 31, 2021

Family

 Haiku for an errant son


A new sensation;

the crowds flock to see Jesus,

that they might be healed.


His family hears,

are disturbed by the reports:

He’s out of his mind!


The scribes say he has

a demon! But a house that’s©

divided can’t stand.


Before you enter

to plunder a strong man’s house,

first you must bind him.


When the Spirit moves

in ways you can’t understand,

don’t criticise.


Mum and the boys come

by; attempt to and sort him out,

to take him back home.


The family call

their son and brother: ‘Come out!’

But he stays inside.


Who is my mother,

my brothers?’ he asks the crowd?

You who do God’s will.


© Ken Rookes 2021

Thursday, January 23, 2014

Home

(Matthew 4:12-13)

Jesus made his home in Capernaum.
His mother stayed in Nazareth,
along with his sisters and brothers.
They talked in low murmurs
about their eccentric older brother;
the girls were married,
most of the boys too,
with children of their own.
Family gatherings had been good times
of fun and celebration;
with Jesus, everybody’s favourite uncle.
At thirty he should have taken a wife;
should be thinking about his own children.
Perhaps that was his intention,
but why Capernaum, and not Nazareth?
Surprised, bewildered,
and somewhat hurt by his departure,
the family held a crisis meeting
and agreed that a delegation should go
to the seaside town to persuade him to return home.

“It’s good to see you,”
he whispered as he embraced each one.
“Yes, I will be staying.
Of course I miss you,
but no, I’m not lonely,” he said,
as he introduced his new friends.
They wept, spoke of his mother’s tears,
and pressed him for further explanation.
“The time had come,”
was all he offered.

© Ken Rookes

Monday, September 2, 2013

real love always involves risk

Loving your enemy and forgiving those who hate you, for instance, will not necessarily make you many friends. There will be many, including family, for whom such a way of living will be alien and strange.

When you advocate a love that turns slaves into equals and asylum seekers into people with the same rights as the rest of us, regardless of the cost, you are not going to be admired and applauded. The letters pages of the newspapers and the talk back airwaves will not fill up with voices saying “you can tell they are Christians by their love.” Instead the voices will say that we are failing in our duty to love those closest to us. That we are putting at risk the interests of those for whom we have the greatest responsibility, those closest to us. They’ll say that we are failing to love our country, our families. They’ll say we are a bunch of bleeding hearts that don’t care enough about our children’s welfare. They’ll say we are advocating the destruction of everything our society holds dear, and that such an attitude has more to do with hate than love.

And that’s exactly what Jesus warned us about. He said that if we are not willing to risk being accused of hating our families, then we haven’t got what it takes to follow him. The fact is though, that real love always involves risks. Real love always lies beyond our comfort zones. And a new community founded on risky, socially controversial, deep love is well and truly worth whatever discomfort and disrepute it takes. Jesus has gone that way before us, and as we gather around this table we are reminded that he was broken for it. But we are also reminded that on the other side of the deep waters of disrepute, scandal and death lies the promised land where the new wine of love and mercy and peace is poured. And with the bread and wine of scandalous love, we are nourished for the unpopular journey into the ultimate love.

Wednesday, August 14, 2013

stark naked


Because Francis took bolts of cloth from his father's business, selling them and giving away the money, his father brings a legal suit against Francis.
But the day's surprises had just begun.
With remarkable composure, Francis rose from his place and approached the bishop. “My lord,” he said, raising his voice, “I will gladly give back to my father not only the money acquired from his things, but even all my clothes.” With that, Francis slipped through a side door of the cathedral, only to appear moments later stark naked, standing before the bishop and holding out all his clothes, with a cash purse placed on top of them. The astonished bishop took the garments and the money, handing them over to an acolyte.

Francis now turned to the crowd and said, “Listen to me, all of you, and understand. Until now, I have called Peter Bernardone my father. But because I have proposed to serve God, I return to him the money on account of which he was so upset, and also all the clothing which is his, and I want only to say from now on, 'Our Father, Who art in heaven,' and not, 'My father, Peter Bernardone.'”
-Donald Spoto
Reluctant Saint: The Life of Francis of Assisi

Monday, July 22, 2013

Meet the kids: the prophet Hosea introduces his family


G’day, mate.
It has been a long time.
This is the wife, Gomer,
and the kids.
Yeah, she’s always liked bright colours,
haven’t you dear?
I keep telling her that she’s a natural beauty,
that she doesn’t need so much make up,
but she never listens to me.
No, I never thought I’d get married either,
didn’t seem to go with the lifestyle,
but I guess that the Lord had other ideas.
Domestic bliss?
We have our ups and downs.
This one’s our eldest, we call him Coniston*.
His sister, there, her name’s Pathetic Cow,
and the baby; we christened him Refugee.
Yes, I chose the names. Well, no;
it was the Lord, really.
It’s a prophecy thing.
Think about it.
Yeah, we’re all hoping that when they’re older
the message might change
and we can give them new names,
like Mercy, Joy, and Welcome.
I think the Lord would like that, too.


* The Coniston massacre was a series of killings of Aboriginal
people in Central Australia in 1928.


© Ken Rookes 2013

Wednesday, December 26, 2012

Obedience



The boy was twelve years old.
and precocious, according to the story.
The family holiday was a
Passover pilgrimage to the great city
with its temple of ages.
The grand stone building
was itself something of a parable
of death and resurrection;
erected, razed, reconstructed and refurbished
to represent and remind
of a presence, divine and beneficent..
In the end, it too, will be swept away;
for now it provides the stage
for a telling little domestic drama.
No mention, here, of his brothers and sisters;
they did what they were told,
and are therefore irrelevant to the story.
Disobedient Jesus, the errant son, 
disregarding the deadline for departing.
The twelve year-old,
considered responsible enough
to not need chasing,
was assumed to be among the company,
and not missed until the first night’s camp.
It took another two days to find him.
The recorded rebuke is surely understated,
with a hint of the parental distress and pain;
the raised voices are left to the imagination.
No real excuses,
unless you count the
“had to be in my Father’s house,” line.
In this day he might have been grounded
for some weeks – maybe months.
Jesus learned his lesson, so we are told,
and, upon returning home,
practised a righteous obedience
that honoured his parents and kept them happy.
If, however, we take the later incident seriously,
when his mum and his brothers turned up
to take the troublesome son in hand,
it may have been feigned.

© Ken Rookes 2012

Tuesday, June 5, 2012

defining family

Family

redefining family


Here is also where Jesus’ words can be understood to be radically inclusive and liberating. Jesus, it appears, is basically affirming that what matters in God’s kingdom is a person’s faith, a person’s commitment to follow God’s will, a person’s openness to God’s mercy.
In other words, faith matters much more than birthright, than family ties, than ethnicity, than inherited pedigree. This is the type of openness which the apostle Paul reflects in his famous words from Gal. 3:28: “There is no longer Jew or Greek, there is no longer slave or free, there is no longer male and female; for all of you are one in Christ Jesus.”
Jesus is totally redefining family in terms of faith. Membership in God’s family is open to all, equally, without discrimination–based only on a willingness to do God’s will. This undercuts any practices in the community of faith that discriminate on the basis of gender, race, social class, age, or any other of our human lines of insider-outsider distinction.

You are mad

" The readings this week describe two alternatives: mimicking the status quo of the world or living on the lunatic fringe in the kingdom of God. One story is about politics, the other about family life....John challenged the religious and political status quo with his anti-establishment message. By joining John's fringe movement, Jesus did too. After his radical rupture with his family by identifying with the desert troublemaker, to the point of submitting to his baptism, Jesus's family tried to apprehend him. The village of Nazareth tried to kill him as a deranged crackpot (cf. Mark 3:21, Luke 4:29, John 7:5). When his mother and brothers found him, he rebuffed them and redefined family. "Who are my mother and my brothers?" He gestured to those who had gathered around him: "Whoever does God's will is my brother and sister and mother."
           And so just as with John, they said that Jesus was demon-possessed. ...
Abba Anthony said, 'A time is coming when men will go mad, and when they see someone who is not mad, they will attack him saying, "You are mad, you are not like us."'"
           We have a choice: to live on the lunatic fringe in the kingdom of God, where even the most basic values of family and politics are radically redefined, or to support the status quo with its predictably oppressive consequences."

Monday, June 4, 2012

Jesus dares to redefine the concept of family



Mark, in the pages of whose gospel
we find ourselves, makes no mention
at all of Jesus’ father.
Perhaps Joseph understood his son
better than the rest,
or else the tradition is correct,
and he had died before Jesus began his work.
Whichever is the case,
Joseph was not leading the family group
when they came to restrain Jesus
and take him home,
before he could do any real harm
or get into any serious trouble.
The reports had alarmed them;
he had always been different,
but they loved him,
and forgave him his eccentricities.
Now he has gone public,
and it is being said, rather too gleefully
it seems to his mother and his brothers,
that he is no longer in his right mind.
Best they bring him home.
Returned to his carpenter’s bench,
they will keep him busy
and watch over of him.
In time he will sort out his thinking
and people will begin to forget.
The family waits outside; expecting, no doubt,
that their errant brother and son
will submit to their collective wisdom,
recognise their love, and come quietly.
Ah, but he has a new family, now!


© Ken Rookes 2012

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Home


(Matthew 4:12-13)

Jesus made his home in Capernaum.

His mother stayed in Nazareth,

along with his sisters and brothers,

who talked in murmurs

about their eccentric older brother.

The girls were married,

most of the boys too,

with children of their own.

Family gatherings had been good,

times of fun and celebration,

with Jesus everybody’s favourite uncle.

At thirty he should have taken a wife

and be thinking about his own children.

Perhaps that was his intent,

but why not Nazareth?

Surprised, bewildered,

and somewhat hurt by his departure,

the family held a crisis meeting

and agreed that a delegation

should go to Capernaum

to persuade him to return home.

“It’s good to see you,”

he whispered as he embraced each one.

“Yes, I will be staying.

I do miss you,

but no, I’m not lonely,” he said,

as he introduced his new friends.

They wept, spoke of his mother’s tears,

and pressed him for further explanation.

“It was time,” was all he offered.


© 2005 Ken Rookes

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